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davidinavalon

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- Message - #1 - Posted - 2008-01-28 at 23:08:29

hi just like to know wht 2 do if1 is in love ,i really mean in love with a straight guy, who also happens to be a close frien and the pastors son
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jay360

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- Message - #2 - Posted - 2008-06-12 at 11:39:40

Wow. That's A Tough1. I wouldn't know what to say.
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somuchbetta

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- Message - #3 - Posted - 2008-07-20 at 13:22:16

Hello. My opinion is that many of us, at times confuse love with infatuation, lust or simply being swept off of our feet by what we see, or what we would like to believe is love. We have all confused love 10 times or another. I would say you really have to be careful and considerate of the potential negative outcomes it may bring upon the pastors son, the pastor himself and of course you. Realize if you have not already, that if you know for sure that the pastors son is not gay and may be involved in some other relationship...you would not want to be a distraction to that or even mess with the friendship that the2 of you have. Possibly, his kindness and friendship is what makes you "love" him and also brings out that desire in you to love and to want to be loved. I would say, cherish the friendship, keep it balanced but look at the good it is to have him in your life and avoid burning that relationship you already have. Trust and wait on God...if He is to invite a new kind of relationship in your life. I know it may be difficult, but hold on. Be blessed.
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